Tale of the Deaf Frog
in three versions
Three young frogs, who were as yet unwise about
the ways of the world, were out one day exploring their environment.
They came to a dairy farm and entered the barn. finding
a pail half filled with fresh milk. Not knowing what it was, and
being a little too curious and somewhat careless, two of them jumped
right into it. Splash! As they swam about attempting to reach the
top of the pail, they found that the sides of the pail were too high
and steep to reach.
The third frog, being more timid, only jumped onto
the top rim of the bucket. He looked down at his two comrades
struggling below to jump out of a white substance. After some failed
attempts, he shouted down to them, "You’ll never make it. Face facts
and prepare to die!"
But since self-preservation is the first rule of
life for humans and animals alike, they continued to struggle for as
long as possible. The frog on top continued to shout down, “You’ll
never make it. Give up and die peacefully.” Unfortunately, one of
the two struggling frogs did not continue and disappeared below the
surface never to be seen again.
The one remaining frog was determined not to give
up, and he continued to struggle despite the discouragement of his
comrade on top of the bucket.
He kicked and squirmed and kicked and squirmed until, at last, all
his churning about in the milk had turned the cream on top into a
big hunk of butter, which was solid enough for him to climb onto and
get out of the pail!
When rejoined by his comrade, he
thanked him profusely for all the encouragement he shouted down to
him. He would never have made it without his help. The frog who
survived was deaf.
A group of frogs were hopping contentedly through the woods, going about
their froggy business, when two of them fell into a deep pit. The other
frogs gathered around the pit to see what could be done to help their
companions. When they saw how deep the pit was, the rest of the dismayed group
agreed that it was hopeless and told the two unfortunate frogs in the pit that they should
prepare themselves for their fate, because they were as good as dead.
Unwilling to accept this terrible fate, the two frogs
tried with all of their might to jump out of the pit. The other frogs shouted into the pit that it was hopeless, and
that they wouldn't be in that situation if they had been more careful,
more obedient to the froggy rules, and more responsible. They continued shouting that they should save their
energy and give up, since they were already as good as dead.
But the two frogs
continued jumping as hard as they could and became quite weary. Finally, one of the frogs took heed to the calls of his fellows. Spent and
disheartened, he quietly resolved himself to his fate, lay down at the bottom of
the pit, and died as the others looked on in helpless grief.
The other frog
continued to jump with every ounce of energy he had, although his body was
wracked with pain and he was completely exhausted. Once again, the crowd of
frogs started yelling for him to accept his fate, stop the pain
and just die. The weary frog jumped harder and harder and—wonder of wonders—finally leapt so high that he sprang from the pit. Amazed, the other frogs
celebrated his miraculous freedom and then, gathering around him asked, “Why did
you continue jumping when we told you it was impossible?”
Reading their lips,
the astonished frog explained to them that he was deaf, and that when he saw
their gestures and shouting, he thought they were cheering him on. What he had
perceived as encouragement inspired him to try harder and to succeed against all
odds.
There once was a bunch of tiny frogs who arranged a climbing competition. The
goal was to reach the top of a very high tower. A
big crowd had gathered around the tower
to see the race and cheer on the contestants.
Heard throughout the race were statements such as,
“Oh, way too
difficult,” “They will never make it to the top,” “Not a chance they will
succeed,” and “The tower is too high.” The
tiny frogs began collapsing, one by one—except for those who,
in a fresh tempo,
were climbing higher and higher. The
crowd continued to yell, “It is too difficult! No
one will make it!”
More tiny frogs got tired and gave up. But ONE continued to climb higher
and higher.
This one refused to give up! At
the end of the race, all had given up climbing the tower except for the one tiny frog who, after a big effort,
was the only one who reached the top!
All of the other tiny frogs wanted to know how this one frog managed to do
it. They asked him how he had found the strength to succeed and reach the
goal. It
turned out that the winning frog was DEAF!!!!
The lessons of these stories
Never give up,
encourage others to do the same, and never discourage others.
There is enormous power in words.
Your encouraging words can lift
someone up and help him or her make it through the day.
Remember that encouraging words can go a long way.
Always be aware of the power words have, because everything you hear and read will affect your actions.
Be careful of what you say to others, and
never listen to the negative
comments or pessimism of others because they could cause you to give up
and discontinue pursuing your goal.
Never use destructive, careless words
to others, especially to someone who is down. Those words can cause deep wounds; they may be the weapons that destroy someone's desire to
continue trying. Your unkind words can
also diminish someone in the eyes of others, destroy their influence, and have a
lasting impact on the way others respond to them.
Anyone
can speak words that tend to rob another of the spirit to continue in difficult times.
But it is a special individual
who will take the time to encourage another. Be special to others.
Encourage one another and build each other
up.
Always stay positive and focused. Be DEAF when
people tell you that you cannot reach your goal or fulfill your dreams!
Continually remind yourself,
“I can do this.”
It's been said that if you put a frog into a pot
of boiling water, it will leap out right away to escape the danger.
But if you put a frog in a kettle that is filled with water that is
cool and pleasant, and then you gradually heat the kettle
until it starts boiling, the frog will not become aware of the
threat until it is too late.
The frog's survival instincts are geared towards detecting sudden
changes.
This is an anecdote that is used to
illustrate how people might get themselves into terrible trouble.
It's a warning to keep us paying attention not just to
obvious threats but to more slowly developing ones.
It's also often used to illustrate how humans have to be careful to
watch slowly changing trends in the environment, not just the sudden
changes.
Is this anecdote true? Not according to
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Two Frogs That Fell Into a Pit
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